Some people feel this emptiness as a lack. They feel that there is something tangible that is missing in their lives and attempt to fill it with whatever makes the feel better; drugs, sex, alcohol, food, shopping. It doesn’t seem to matter. They feel that if they can just get enough of whatever thing or experience has made them feel good in the past, that they can fill up this emptiness even if it is a temporary fulfillment.
Some people feel that this is a spiritual emptiness; a yearning for God. I’ve heard sermons where preachers claim that it is the voice of divinity or the Holy Spirit speaking to the heart; that if an individual just give up enough of themselves, surrenders themselves; that God will take away the pain and emptiness and fill it with something even better.
But what if it isn’t an emptiness at all?
Zen Buddhism has a symbol – an almost circle called an ensō. This almost circle is painted with a single brush stroke and it is symbolic of the moment when the mind is free to simply let the body/spirit create. It is said that with practice the mind can be taught to leave that center space open on purpose in order to give the body and the spirit room to create the life that you have always wanted.
Seemingly related is the center point of the Chinese Bagua; the eight sided (nine spaced) cosmological chart that is used in order to practice Feng Shui (the art of placement). In this particular practice the center point – the center space of the Bagua is always (if possible) left open and empty so as to invite in new energy and to give you room to create the type of home that you truly desire.
Indeed, what if this openness; this space inside of each heart is anything but empty?
Think about it. What if this space that we perceive of as emptiness and equate with loneliness and lack is actually a part of the system design of our body/soul interface?
It’s not that far-fetched really. All of the most useful and practical of machines are made not only with specifically designed working parts, but with spaces in which those parts can work. Gears have to turn. Levers have to shift. Even when it comes to computers, there has to be memory space in order for calculations to be made; places for all those ones and zeroes to gather and process.
What if – instead of fighting the emptiness; instead of trying so desperately to fill it up, we instead embraced it?
What if we accepted that empty space inside of our minds, hearts and spirits as the space in which dreams come true; as the workspace of our souls where it can get to work on putting together the life that we have always wanted? What if it is here, in the emptiness that our conversations with our souls can begin?
Perhaps then the emptiness would take on an entirely different meaning. Instead of emptiness and loneliness we would find peace, comfort and understanding, and we would stop trying so desperately to fill something that is simply a necessary part of the way that we were designed.